Auckland Counselling: Results focused counselling for couples and individuals
aucklandcounselling.com can help with…
Resolving conflict and anger
Regaining integrity after an affair
Dealing with separation issues
Understanding dynamics of relationship
Some questions for you to consider
Do you have trouble communicating with your partner, or being understood?
Are you struggling to understand what is happening to you and why?
Do you feel silenced or powerless by the situation you are in?
Do you think that talking about the issues will make things worse?
Are you ready to take responsibility for your own behaviour?
Do you want to learn new behavioural patterns and habits?
Confessions of a relationship counsellor
Going through my own relationship difficulties many years ago, lead my wife and I to explore relationship counselling. At the time I was working as a general counsellor and didn’t understand the true complexities of couple’s counselling. If I did I may have recognised that the help we received in many ways was not great; in that it focused on what was not working, gave justifications for ending the relationship, didn’t manage the strong emotions present and even framed the raw emotions as a sign things were not working.
The outcome from a mere three sessions was that my wife made a decision to end the relationship and our seventeen year union was brought to an end. I still firmly believe that if we were managed by a different approach we may have had a more positive outcome and we may even still be together.
When we are going through intense difficulties with our partners we often forget why we got together in the first place. We forget the good times and dreams we shared that made us want to commit. That’s why choosing an experienced qualified counsellor with the skill set and training to make a positive difference is critical, if you want to make it work!
As a result of the combinations of specific trainings I have done in Narrative Mediation and Restorative Justice Facilitation I call the way I work Restorative Mediation. My approach addresses the harm done in a relationship, provides a context for understanding each other’s perspective and for taking responsibility for what we have done that undermined the integrity of the relationship. If conflict and hurt is managed well it can open space for compassion and empathy towards each other as well as forgiveness and a renewed commitment to work in with each other again.
At Auckland Counselling I provide couples with the means to address what hasn’t worked, restore integrity to the relationship and maintain the progress with specific communication skills and techniques to keep the relationship growing and moving forward.
As part of my Masters degree in Counselling, I have had extensive professional training in couples and family counselling, mediation and restorative practices. As a result of my qualifications and experiences I work efficiently to get relationships functional again by helping couples address what is not working and deal with harm done within the relationship so that love can flourish.
The most rewarding aspect of the work I do at Auckland Counselling is seeing the positive difference made for clients. Creating positive change within the dynamics of relationships is what I’m totally committed to. I go about doing this by utilizing practical skills that enable clients to discover resources, strengths and abilities while also incorporating and acknowledging the struggles, disappointments and despair. I am dedicated to achieving positive change in the most respectful, open and professional way possible.
Choosing to work with me means you are dealing with a highly qualified and experienced counselling professional who is committed towards achieving results for you.
Benefits you can expect from coming to visit me at Auckland Counselling
• Freedom of expression within your relationships
• Resolution of past issues that are impacting on you now
• Ability to be more at ease with yourself and others
• Clarity and insight into what is impacting negatively on your life
• An enhanced sense of personal power to take action and initiate change
If you are feeling stuck and unable to create traction in moving forward contact Chris at Auckland Counselling to outline your situation or make an appointment.
“If you could have the conversations or take the action needed to resolve the issues and concerns you are facing, you would have by now. That’s why clients come to see me, to speak about what is important to them in a managed and supportive setting so they can create the change they want and move forward”.